On How a Man Can Be a Hero
Don't count on sexual intercourse itself to give a woman a top-flight orgasm — only 30 percent of women reach climax during intercourse, points out sex therapist Berman. The missionary position (man on top), in particular, tends to provide insufficient stimulation of the clitoris. So try to mix up positions and see which ones both partners can enjoy.

And no matter what position you choose — or how many erogenous zones you set your sights on — don't forget the foreplay. A woman almost always needs a buildup to make her orgasm a blockbuster. That's why "a man with a slow hand," says Dr. Ava, "is a hero in bed." For more multiple-orgasm guidance from Dr. Ava, go to:

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Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms, Too!
Come again? It's true — men, like women, can become multi-orgasmic. The secret, sexologists say, is to improve your command of the PC muscle, which controls ejaculation, as well as the flow of urine.

You can strengthen the large pelvic muscle by repeatedly flexing and holding it, as if you're stopping the urine flow; in time, you'll be able to tighten the muscle when you're about to ejaculate — that'll stop the ejaculation, but not the orgasm. In the same session, you can have another orgasm, ejaculation and all.

Now you can wait to ejaculate ... long enough to please your mate.